Monday, August 8, 2011

"The hilarious contributions made by homosexuals"

Today my mother and I went to church because the other night she came into my room crying, asking to sleep on the floor to protect me from the devil. Sure.
We walk in during the "worship time" and sit down. I'm already smirking at the people so enthralled in all of this. A man comes up several songs into the "worship time" to make us all aware of "upcoming events and church news". A slide comes up on the screen regarding the recent bill proposed by the state of California which would require all public schools to include, in their history programs, the historical contributions made by homosexuals.  The man speaking then says, "Sign the petition against this bill so all of our children in public schools, from kindergarten through the 12th grade, won't be required to learn about the historical, or should I say hysterical (the church laughs and applauds), contributions made by homosexuals in our society. "
Okay. Let me make something clear: I am, in no way, opposed to having religious beliefs or anything like that. I'm not going to run around telling you you're wrong and throwing scientific evidence in your face unless the need were to arise. I'm all for freedom of speech and having your own viewpoints on the world and how it should be run, HOWEVER: How dare you make a statement like that and then go on for the next hour telling people to love one another no matter how hard it is, whether they're a "believer" or not, or what-have-you. How dare you. 
It's okay for the children and our future children to learn about all the different religions and different views on the world (BUT NOT EVOLUTION, OF COURSE NOT), but when it comes to homosexuality and the ways they've contributed to society, it's unacceptable? I mean, I'm not saying we should take out all religious and creationism vs evolution theories, not at all. I do think, however, children should be exposed to all forms of religion, political parties, lifestyles, and creation theories and be able to make their own choices. We need to expand and open our children's minds to new ideas; let them see what's really going on and base their ways of life around the theories/ viewpoints they see fit.
There is no good in hiding homosexuality from them. It does more harm than good. The same goes for evolution, abortions, and the like. Just because you weren't brought up around these things and are completely repulsed by the idea of them even existing doesn't mean your child, who is going to grow up in a world where these are the most important, controversial topics of our time (among everyone), shouldn't be exposed to them or not be allowed to devise their own hypothesis on the matter. 
Let's take into consideration one thing a lot of people (read: parents) say in defense against their children... thinking for themselves: I want my child to have the best life possible and, for that to happen, he needs to believe what I do because I am right; I have always been right and always will be right. Therefore, if my child is exposed to conflicting ideas, he will become a satanist and go against everything I believe in and will die. 
There's also the famed: You're just a child, and I'm not secure enough in the way that I raised you to trust you enough to make the best, most logical decision for yourself.


Or something similar. Here's where your logic is flawed, parents: you forget the things you wanted to say against your parents. And here's something even more riveting: due to the fact that we don't all obey every word our parents say, or do exactly as they do, society has (gasp) flourished
Do you see anyone running around with a torch burning people claiming they're witches? No. Do you know why? 
Because one day, Johnny asked mommy why she was screaming to set another woman on fire, and she responded "Because we think she's a witch." Johnny responded, "Think? Shouldn't we find out for sure?" "Nah," responded mommy. Johnny thought she was wrong and did something about it. Soon, other people began to listen to what Johnny was saying and realized, 'hey, maybe we should find out more about these people before setting them on fire.' 
Guess what happened.
None of them were witches and thousands of innocent lives were saved.
Same goes for slavery, my god especially slavery. We all know the story, but my point is: having differing opinions is not wrong. 
Yes, yes, I understand you want what's best for your child(ren) and, if you're firmly ground in your beliefs, by all means, teach them about them! But don't shield them from learning about other things because you want to control them in just one more way. 
Often, we forget the fact that no one really knows what's going on. We make our best guesses based on the evidence we're given and hope we're right in the end.
Religion is nothing more than a "more complex" version of "pick one and hope you're right". I once heard a quote from a man I know to be an extremely devoted Christian. When asked his stand on religion, he calmly responded "Whoever you think god is, you better hope you're right". I thought it was absolutely brilliant. Not over-done, not too complex, can't be taken out of context. Simple. To the point. Brilliant. He didn't force his beliefs on the man, nor did he remotely mention them.


Getting back to the original point of this post; I understand why some people would be wary of this law being passed. I'm not implying (or trying to, at least) that they don't have any reason to be slightly concerned by its passing. I am, however, emphasizing the fact that it's not a bad thing, introducing new ideas to children. I can only imagine the reaction some parents (or grandparents) had when they decided to put black history into history curriculum.
It's not like it's something they won't be seeing even more frequently when their kids are in school. How awful would it be for your grandchild to go home to his parents (your child) and say, "I was at Billy's house, and his dads made me the best grilled cheese!" and your child responded, "Dads? Ewwwwwww"
Immature. Rude. Disrespectful. Immature.
It's something that's becoming more and more prominent in our world because people are being urged to be who they really are and, to be blunt, fuck what everyone else thinks. If (god forbid.) your child were to be gay, would you disown him? I sure hope not. But, more importantly, would your child THINK you would disown him? If I had a child, I would encourage him to always be true to himself, because if you're lying to yourself, you're lying to everyone else. And isn't that one of the ten commandments? DON'T LIE OR ELSE YOU'LL GO TO HELL.
Okay, that was inappropriate. 


But, in all seriousness, it is absurd, inconsiderate, and flat-out silly to want to shield your child from learning about the history and contributions made by homosexuals. It's creating a sense of ignorance that I, and I'm sure several other hundred-thousand people, wouldn't like to see in the next generation. No matter how many times you've heard it, ignorance is not bliss.
Learning about homosexuals will not make your child gay.
People are not "turned". It is what it is.


If the people leading are ignorant, the ones being fed will be the same.



2 comments:

  1. Well, I agree with you 100 percent. I do believe that they should be taught all aspects of history, but at the same time, don't be so concerned with the "new" curriculum that they loose sight of what our country was founded on. That is the main point of history. Throwing the fact that Abe Lincoln may or may have no been a homosexual doesn't change what he did for our country, and that's the important thing.

    Also, you mentioned that it's okay for students to learn about other religions... Well, did you know that if a Christian teacher mentions their beliefs in the classroom, they get in trouble? But if a Muslim or Atheist teacher does the same thing, administration turns the other cheek. (Just some food for thought for you.)

    The reason these church-goes offended you is because they do not truly understand. I can't judge them, nor will I, but I am stating my opinion. We had the same thing happen in our church yesterday morning, but to a less extreme. One of our members brought it to our attention, explained the petition, and set it on a counter if anyone wanted to sign it. It wasn't forced upon us. We didn't say crude things about the homosexual community, or attack their lifestyle in any way, shape or form. That is what being a Christian is all about. Standing on your beliefs, while still loving the person you may disagree with. (1 Corinthians 13... in depth. Not just the "love is patient, love is kind, love does not envy, is always patient... etc." part.)

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  2. It is, in fact, legal for them to share their views in a HISTORY classroom.
    They won't get in trouble for mentioning them, they are not, however allowed to push their religion on a student/ classroom. Sharing what they know and view to be correct, without forcing a bias upon a student is legal because it leaves room for the student to make his judgement and decide whether or not to follow their teacher's footsteps or not.
    The only reason these pose as an issue is when you get some asshole 15-year-old who thinks he knows everything getting pissed at the teacher and telling the principal or whomever may be in charge of handling that situation and things get dealt with as such.
    I'm sure it happens just as many times with Atheists or Muslims or whomever, you don't hear about it as much because they're not so easily offended when it comes to things like that. A lot (not all, don't get me wrong) of Christians/Catholics take everything they hear and blow it out of proportion to make it seem like they're being discriminated against. Which is untrue in about 80% of the situations that arise.

    Yes, love is patient all that jazz; but it was extremely offensive to (as if there were any) homosexuals. I mean, I'm not gay but I was offended by that. It was rude. If I were to go up in front of a large crowd and say "Let's talk about the hilarity.. oops, I mean "history" of Christianity" people would throw a bitch fit.

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